Spiritual check up on late Marriages
“For I know the plans I have for you, to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you an expected end” – Jeremiah 29vs.11 NIV Living Bible.
There is a time for everything, a time to quit bachelorhood or spinsterhood and get hooked to the right partner. Time to build a Christian home and bring up godly Children. Time to stop walking alone or planning alone. Time to get married.
Are you experiencing some marital delays? Ideally, from a lady should get married as soon as she finishes her education, gets a work and in her twenties. Same for men? Are you having problems sustaining your relationships? To overcome these problems, please follow the spiritual prescriptions itemized below:
Conduct a Spiritual check. Investigate your family background. At what age did your mother get married? What of your sisters, half sisters, cousins, and Aunts? Is there any evil pattern of late marriages in your immediate or extended family?
How did your past relationships break up? Did you notice a usual pattern of occurrences before your past relationships wind up?
Try and recollect your dreams. Has anyone claimed to be your husband in a dream? Have you ever seen yourself in a wedding in a dream? Have you ever seen yourself as a mother with children in a dream?
What is your emotional relationship with your parents? It is possible that there is a soul tie with your parents. If you a lady, how much is your father fond of you. If you a man, what is your mother’s attitude to the break up of your past relationships?
Late marriages could also be a result of curse issued against you as a result of past romantic or sexual escapades. But thank God, Jesus has redeemed you from every inherited curse.
How did you break up your past relationships? Have you jilted some one before? Have you ever promised to marry someone and failed before. Have you ever made a marriage vow to someone and break it.
There are some deep questions that you need to ask your parents. Did they promise you in marriage to anyone when you were young?
Are you a normal person biologically? Do people have any information that makes you unattractive as a life partner? Are you sure you are not a eunuch? All things being equal can you raise up children through the normal biological process.
Have you ever made a vow or covenant to any person or power that you will not marry? Have you engaged in demonism and have exchanged your marriage for ‘false’ Wealth and Honour.
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Yet another man has left me after telling me he loves me. I really thought he was the one. I need healing and to move on and the man of God who is to be my husband to manifest in my life
Babalobi commented:
Let your bones of bones and flesh of flesh manifest now and be cleaved unto u in Jesus name
I was in love with a woman and i assured her that i will get married. now due to social reasons i am afraid to take this forward. even she understand the situation and is not reluctant.now its only the lust i have on her flesh. i have jilted another lady, with whom i flirted. i have sinned by flesh in the past, i am all filled with lust , my thoughts and my deeds.
Now its late for my marriage, all my pals of my age are blessed with kids and happy marriage.I have made up my mind that i shall not sin (by thoughts or by flesh) once i get married
Now i have met one good lady, no matter what she did in her life i am ready if Jesus accepts her to be my wife.I shall abide by the Christ, my redeemer.i leave this decision to Lord, let jesus choose the partner for me
Please ask Jesus to show mercy on me, cleanse me from my sins and bless me again
im free from all the above things except that my ex broke up with me on the reasons that he needs someone who will be a fool,someone who will not question his orders.he said he doesnt think i can be the kind of fool he wants me to be.ive never disobeyed him.i dont know why he said that.i want to get married and ive been praying for years now. pls what do i do
i have make a marriage vow to someone and i break it yet another man has lift me after telling me that he love me we are going to get married and i have sinned by flesh with him.
pls i need healing and to move on and the man of GOD who is to be my my husdan to manifest in my life
My wedding is called off wich is in 2 weeks time,im devastated for i love my fiancee dilip,i started seeing things at my bed that held me down and i could here its heavy breathing,after reading your info i do recal havin a dream in which i was gettin maried as well as having children.My relationships have all failed but dilip is the 1 that i truly luv ,abuse seems to follow me,ive had so much heartache losing fathr ,brother,best frnd,close uncle,lost our home my jobs were stolen by frnds,frnds used me,raped,molested all 1 after the other.its a very painful process wen your wedding gets called off and your family all of sudden is against me from marryin dilip,things got so messed up in just 2 days and i can hear something laughing at me.Both my aunts from dads side and cousin are not married and they told me wen they were young someone told them they will never marry.Ive had other family members laugh and tel me you’l be a spinister,im always helping people even set people up with great success even had them betray me after all ive done am always giving till i got nothing left but tell me why am i suffering so much?i went to bible colege,was a member of the choir went on mission trips helped feed the homeless,why am i going thro all this heartache 1 thing after another,why arent my prayers being answered iv done nothing wrong i feel like giving up how much can 1 person take?why do others experience such miracles and i dont?Im a believer too,its heartsore watching people that hurt you getting everything they want while you suffering but join in on their happiness,deep down im dying inside.I know im surrounded by witchcraft ive printed your prayers but too go thro this 2weeks before my wedding the day iv been looking forward too with excitement and that too has been taken away from me?so what now i just wana call it quits
I have been in a relationship for 2 years. Last year, he broke up with me twice for no reason. He later came back to apologise and I forgave him. A month ago, we had some problems and I broke up with him. 5 days later, I realised I had over- reacted so I apologised. He accepted my apology but the next day, he told me wasn’t sure if he wanted me. I am so heart broken. My mum is divorced and none of my aunts are married (they are all above 40 years). I am praying about this and I would be grateful if you joined me in prayer. I want God to restore my relationship and give us peace. Thanks and God bless you.e for no reason. He later came back to apologise and I forgave him. A month ago, we had some problems and I broke up with him. 5 days later, I realised I had over- reacted so I apologised. He accepted my apology but the next day, he told me wasn’t sure if he wanted me. I am so heart broken. My mum is divorced and none of my aunts are married (they are all above 40 years). I am praying about this and I would be grateful if you joined me in prayer. I want God to restore my relationship and give us peace. Thanks and God bless you.
I have been in a relationship for 2 years. Last year, he broke up with me twice for no reason. He later came back to apologise and I forgave him. A month ago, we had some problems and I broke up with him. 5 days later, I realised I had over- reacted so I apologised. He accepted my apology but the next day, he told me wasn’t sure if he wanted me. I am so heart broken. My mum is divorced and none of my aunts are married (they are all above 40 years). I am praying about this and I would be grateful if you joined me in prayer. I want God to restore my relationship and give us peace. Thanks and God bless you.
Thanks for the prayer points after so many disappointments,i know the substantces i am made of,i am a new creation with Christ Jesus and i know the plans He has for me ,please help and pray with me that thes plans will come to the physicall in the name of Jesus.AMEN
i really love this forum
i do not know what to call mine, because it is beyond human understanding. To begin with, i have never promised anybody marriage neither has anyone proposed to me. I am 31years old and as i speak, i dont even have any relationship goinig on. My mother and aunties married very young, and my younger cousins are all married. Before now, i lived a very promiscous life, dating married men and most times sleping with others for money. Though i have stoped living the life of fornication, i have yet delved into another line of sin. Recently, i discovered that i am all alone, no job, no money, no friend. It got me thinking so bad that i started having strange feelings dat led me to watching pornographic pictures and movies. Right now i am confused and dont know why all these are happening to me because i am a committed and dedicated chorister and born again christian. I really want to get maried please help me, pray for me, for i have become an object of ridicle every where i go.
i promised to mary a girl who my heart loved with a passion but she played me by going with another guy secretly but fortunately i caught her cheating me. my trust in all ladies died infact even if i promise a lady,i just dont get serious
My name is Rose.
I am 32yrs. I embarked on a 21days fasting Jan 2011, on the 11th day, I ran into my 1st (we seperated 12yrs earlier) we’re now professionals in our respective fields. All He’d told me was that his life was scattered, he needed to settle down. As at then he was busy on a project he’d embarked on. What I observed was that he was not interested in my body, he thanked God always for bringing us back together & he was so happy, he said he’s been searching for me all these years. He was already accomplished financially. During the pendency of his project, he once took time out to tell me how much he appreciated me, that I’ve been very encouraging since I came back into his life especially as he’s working on this project. He told me he was home with his family and everyone is on his neck to come and show them his potential wife ‘for he’s never shown them anyone before’, he told them to give him a little time that first things first, that immediately he’s done with his project, he’ll bring her to introduce to them. .
He eventually left his job inorder to be committed with what he was doing. He gave me little attention then, but always explained that immediately he’s done with his project he’ll have all the time in the world for me.
Unfortunately, he was unsuccessful at his project, he got busy with some contracts and always assured me things would be fine. By then he was running broke, he started becoming hysterical, he couldn’t even pay his rent, had to sell his car, but kept assuring me ‘we’ll be fine again’ . Contract no.1 crumbled, no.2 followed suit and problems set into our relationship. (I never asked him for money nor complained he didn’t have money as before) he started withdrawing from me, we live in the same city but won’t see for months, he only sprung surprise visits on me at intervals when he felt like. We started having serious quarrells. ( So much that I can’t list here) whenever I approached him, he would say, that his kind of person, whenever he has a problem he always shuts out everyother aspect of life & be alone… I come from a ruthless polygamous family. I don’t confide in my (blood) only sister. Early in the year, I don’t know why I told her I was in a relationship, only for me to realise lately that she’d spread the news everywhere. Most times when we’ve a problem I’d ask my friend what really is my offence, but, he’d be always speechless. In october we’d a serious problem, it was then I started xraying the relationship, from the point I mentioned him to my sister, and that was when things started going sour. I knew I’d to take the blame from the young man and pray more. I discussed with my younger brother, it was then he told me that on a certain day ( in september) at one of my half sister’s house ( the strong woman of my father’s house) she said she told all her siblings (older than her) that non of them should attend my wedding else she’ll disown whoever disobeys her. That among everyone in the family, I & my younger brother have refused to bow before her. That she heard I’m in a relationship, that athink till now the man in question has not come forward to marry me, that let’s bet and see if he’ll ever come! In october he told me he needed some space. In november on the Eve of my 32nd birthday, he told me that “he’d not asked me to wait, that he does not have anything right now, that I should at the moment move on with my life, if he’s able to catch up with me, fine”. I’ve been praying tirelessly, each time I do, sometime happens. Early december, he told me he has a new job, he took to calling me and sending me messages. 1st January, he sent me a message , telling me how wonderful and adorable I am and that we are going to have a ravishing year! I am happy and grateful to God. Though he has not called me yet nor paid me a visit. I believe God will perfect what he has started.
I wept throughout 2011. Please pray along with me, advise.. I’ll appreciate, my heart has been heavy and bleeding. I saw something I wanted come to me and suddenly I’m losing grip. But God is still on the throne
I also want to get married this year in Jesus name my God may your will be done amen
Please pray for me, I am 28 yrs and Im yet to be married. None has ever proposed marriage to me and im begining to feel lonely. I want my bone of bones to locate me In Jesus name, Amen!
i want to get married i have two teenage children their father passed away before we marry but now i feel very lonely i dont want to die alone i need a life partner please pray for me
Am 25 never been in a stable relationship its always a month or two no one is married in our family even my cosins only one girl is married out of 16 girls on my fathers side as us girls on my mothers side they get married I believe the prayer points wil work for us
Hi Sir, you ask the question “are you sure you are not a eunuch?”. My understanding of this sect of people is that they are castrated. In what context were you speaking in reference to them. Could you be trying to say those who are not attracted to women? If so, do you then try to suggest that if they are freed from that sort of bondage would they not be eligible to get married? After all I fail to understand the use of the term ‘eunuch’ taking into account that those castrated cannot have feelings of longing for companionship that is in the form of marriage.
I am 31 and yet to marry although I have 3 men asking for my hand in marriage of which l have not objected . I have being asking God to guide me in making decision.pls how do l get confirmation of my flesh of flesh and my bone of bone.
Plz help am mature and old enuf to get married had adrim that i was tied down by my mums friend not to see pontential suitors. I hv prayed nd fasted bout it. Currently i hv no one am dating they rather be friends with me.plz help pray wit me
Need to gat marriage pray with me