Ecclesiastes 3 vs. 2-3
To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born…
There is a time to get married
You are supposed to get married at a certain point in your life. The institution of marriage was ordained by God. One of the things you should achieve in your lifetime is marrying someone you love and bringing up Godly offspring through the process. Your wedding day should be one of the most notable, happiest, and important days in your life.
They Bible say there is a time for everything; therefore there is a time you should get married. How do you know the best time to get married? Several factors will help you to decide when to get married.
Wisdom dictates that you should finish your studies or career course before getting married. Marriage may disturb your educational plans because you can no longer take decisions on your life without consulting your partner. Therefore it is best to complete the minimum educational level required for you to earn a decent living before you get married.
One of the fruits of marriage is child bearing. So are you physically and emotionally ready to give birth to children and train them up? This supposes that if you are 18 years old and below under guidance, it is not the right time to get married. Marriage is not for teenagers.
Marriage involves some financial commitments- housing, transport, feeding, child care and extended family. Either of you should have a ready and guaranteed source of financing before you get married.
Marriage involves some planning, you have to plan for your new home as you cannot to squat as couples, you have to plan for your wedding day, you have to get your marriage plans approved by your parents, and you have to plan to inform your close relatives and friends. Devote enough time for this. Don’t rush into marriage.
You should be able to win the heart of someone you love before you can start talking of marriage. Marriage is a two sided love. You should love someone, and the person must also love you.
Another important factor is the readiness of both parties to get married. If either of the party is not willing to get married now, then the relationship is heading for the rocks.
Once the conditions are right for you to get married, seek the face of God. He created the institution of marriage and wishes to see you get married. But don’t keep God out of your plans. The Bible says our plans will succeed once we commit them to God.
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My first relationship came to an end few months ago.The lady said she went 2 one pastor dt told her dt in future there is possibility of divoice.We loved each other so much. i loved her.Now she is not showing much concern.Though i am feeling wtin me dt she comin back.Can i just forget her & plan for another person or i shud gve her somtim 2 decide finally.
Beloved of the Lord.
OLUMIDE JOSEPH****The only one that can never leave you or forsake you , whose love is steadfast is Jesus… Seek Him first and every other thing shall be added unto you .. Let God choose a wife for you do not try to choose a wife for yourself. Acknowledge Him in all you do He will direct your part.. Tell God that His will be done in your life If you mean it it will come to pass . cheer up, run after the things of God and see testimony in yourlife meanwhile fast and pray praise God wait and hear from God.
thanks for the word.God bless you.im blessed
Thanks a lot for your comment here i love them all. but i have someone that wants to marry me but inside me i dont love him. should i continue with the marriage?
Sir, just ended a 2 years relationship. from begining of 2011 its been issues all the way but surprisingly the issues were not a big deal. wenever we had issues he always say hes tired. nd dat a broken relationsip is better than a broken marriage. recently he worked out saying he does not love me anymore and that the excitement is gone. This is someone that has introduces me to the world as his wife. Worked out of me to the arms of another lady.
This is a good counsel but God should b put Ist nt last,even b4 deciding on whom 2 marry. bco’s He is d one dat knows d future.
O God help me for my wedding plan in jesus amen