Deuteronomy 30:15-19
Recovery cannot happen until a woman is willing to look at herself in the mirror and say, “I messed up”. People who blame other people never recover because they live in a state of denial. Any time you blame another person for your problem, you give that person control of your life. With your blame, you are saying “I can get out until you let me out. I can’t succeed until you allow me to succeed. I can’t move forward in my life until you give me the green light.” That’s a lie of the devil!
According to Deuteronomy 30:15-19, , you make the choice. You must accept responsibility for your actions. It may not have been all your fault responsibility for your own actions. It may not have been all your fault, but you need to accept responsibility for the part that was. You must be able to say to yourself, I wasn’t without fault. I was a contributing factor”.
Unless you are able to accept responsibility for your actions, you will be eaten up with unresolved guilty. It will rot inside you and erupt in your life in the form of Jealousy and anger and hatred and bitterness. Identify the people you are devil will try to speak in your mind when he tells you; it’s not your fault. It’s all his fault.
You were right, he was wrong. Things were just oust of control. You didn’t do anything bad. Somebody else is to blame for all this.” No! Accept your share of the responsibility for what has gone wrong and ask God to forgive you.
God is too wise and too loving to put your destiny into the hands of another person. He doesn’t want another person’s action to control your future. What you do from this point on is up to you. How you feel and how you react and what you do and what you say and what you choose and how you deal with the past is soley your responsibility. It’s your decision.
If you will face up to your own sin and take hold of the hand of our influence of any person, the evil of any circumstance. You can lie and not die!
You don’t need to live with depression, oppression, or suppression. God wants you to come out of your feeling of failure and rejection and regret. It’s time-choose life.
Source T.D. Jakes
A friend of mine told of a sermon Bishop Jakes preached – about adoption and how the baby listens to the sounds of his mother in the womb, and sometime this is a problem with the adoptive parents to successfully understand the problems this child might have. I am an adoptive parent (son is now 43) and still trying to help my child. You compared this sermon to people who have been reared in church and still turn their back on the church.
I do not know the name of this sermon, but if you recogtinze what I am talking about, I would appreciate seeing if I could get the sermon on CD.
Thank you
Fran Morgan
181 Devonshire Drive
Branson, MO 65616
jfmorgan@centurytel.net
Gos is really talking to us through your sermons, I must say I am blessed with this – it touches my situation. Please can I get these sermons through my e-mail address as they come up? Bless you!
Nigeria.
I have to admit I have lived a long time in the blame game and didn’t realize it was making me powerless. Thanks for the info. Gives a whole new outlook on the way I see things, or will try to look at them in the future, makes perfect sense.
bishop u r blessing to me i wish i can meet u one day and see u preching this message again man of a mission plz bishop
ITS BEEN TO ALWAYS KNOW MY FAULTS IN EVERY FAILURD THAT I FACE IN LIFE, thank you